Lover Know Thyself:

In Matters of Love Are You Venus- or Mars-Oriented

                                         

Venus and Mars are the classic references in the ‘laws of attraction’ particularly as far as astro-cosmology or where you fit into the larger scheme is concerned.

Venus symbolizes values.  Mars refers to passion.  Getting in touch with the one that is driving your love interests can save a lot of heartache.  I always say this is a course that would do well in high school when all of those raging hormones abound! 

Zooming in on Venus we find a burning heart love as the ‘force.’  This often shows up as a desire to bring beauty, healing, justice, harmony and peace into the world.  If you know that you think and feel about these qualities most of the time when it comes to expressing your love... you are ruled by Venus.  

Venus-Oriented Lovers are always thinking about relationships. This is because they are endowed with great amounts of of passionate love.  If we think about it, there would need to be this great reservoir in place to bring beauty, justice and peace to the whole world.  The downside comes when Venusians focus, as they inevitably will want to do, on one person (most often people they feel drawn to heal).  They find heaven in the honeymoon stage of the relationship.  However, shortly afterward, the cracks start to appear.  Unless the Venusian is paired with another Venusian or an enduring Mars-oriented mate, Venusian will start to feel trapped in limiting agony or there may even be social embarrassment about the new mate.  All that love cannot find its place in what would feel like stodgy convention when it is designated to ever-expanding art, social justice, beauty, peace and healing. 

A closer look at the Mars-Oriented Lover reveals relentless passion in the loins along with the conscious or unconscious need to render yourself immortal through your progeny.  Conventional relationships rule.  Marriage, 2.5 children and the white picket fence will set you up for life. Seeking all of the practical information that increases your and your family’s survival edge, your status, and your immortality through your bloodline will be most appealing. Fulfillment of your lust would be the first portal to the land of Mars-Oriented fulfillment.   

All of this is not to say that each of us does not possess a bit of both.  The Venus person can have everything, and more, that a conventional relationship can offer.  However, one’s work in the world will have to be the first relationship.  Then a partner who passionately loves you first, for what you have come to bring to the world, rather than for your societally-promoted role can bring you relationship fulfillment. Equally, one who has complimentary work wherein a magnificent symbiosis expands both of you beyond what you could have done alone could be the answer.  Of course, Mars-Oriented Lovers can enjoy beauty and peace. 

 It is the bottom line orientation that will determine your authentic love platform.  Which one defines your love?  Which one gets your passion and heart flowing?  Venus or Mars?  Lover know thyself is a way to bring more harmony into our world.  

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